The day you decide, priority - self respect ,that day change is natural.let it go is easy.life will beacome peaceful.
Sometimes it's really very hard when our loved ones get hurt and we get affected by that but with patience, stubborn belief , the change will go in flow.
So just be positive in every situation.
Believe everything is going to be fine and everything whatever will happen brings you peace and is for your betterment. You will change if the only option left is change,you will change.